Hello. I've shared my stories many times but it never seems to sink in what happened to me I mean. The first time I was raped it was by a guy I loved. We were going to have vaginal sex but then he moved down to do anal. I told him no. He told me to relax and started pushing it in then I tried to get away from him. But he held me down and pushed it in. I kicked him and he stopped. I cried that day. It wasn't the first time he forced me to do things. And all I wanted was for him to love me. But he used me instead. I also was never sure if it was rape. Until now I think it's starting to sink in