{~Name~}who now lives in Idaho and owns his own business lied on me to cover the truth from his wife. {~Name~} approached me and I had no clue that he was married. {~Name~} offered to pay my bills and to take care of me so as far as I knew I was dating him it was long distance but I was dating him. I've never had sex with the man. But then I come to find out that he has a wife and when I found out that he had a wife and that they've had trouble conceiving I felt very guilty so I told her the truth and because I told her the truth and because I told her the truth {~Name~} bandy lied on me to cover his lies and him being unfaithful to his wife now keep a mind I did not say it was physical but he did cheat on his wife and when I found out that he was married I tried to do the right thing. So instead because of what he had in his preknob so she wouldn't take everything he decided to lie about me and now I had charges pressed against me because I'm an black black woman who doesn't really have money even though I am educated but he is also a rich white man in this society and as we know rich white men get believed over young black women especially black woman who don't have a lot of money even though we are educated and smart. So he smeared my name and decided to have lots of articles written about me so therefore I can no longer have a career I was in. His wife ended up believing him and I had charges pressed against me and my name smeared and now my reputation, my didn't, my life, and my career are ruined, it's difficult for me to get a job that I know that I deserve with having a 4 year degree from a very accredited respectable college. It's not fair and it's not right all because I told the truth when I found out that he had a wife I'm the one who's paying the price and suffering while he gets to live his good happy it's a good happy wife with no consequences for him too consequences for him cheating on his wife and lying to not only me but to his wife as well.