My story automatically elicits a response of doubt and ridicule simply because it occurred in a medical setting. I underwent a surgical procedure at a university hospital to fix a blown out vein around my ankle. The surgeon told me she would be making incisions around my knee. I was shocked, horrified, and deeply disturbed when I learned the next day that my pubic hair was shaved right up to my penis on the side and base. I later learned that the resident had removed the disposable underwear staff gave me and clipped my hair while a nurse then cleansed the area while I was sedated. I was never advised these intimate tasks would be performed or I would not have consented to this procedure. Apparently, everybody knew I was going to be prepped from the navel down except me. I was told this is standard for my procedure. So why wasn't I told? The staff had plenty of time and means to explain the prep process to me. Yet, they did not. And I think they should be held accountable. But everywhere I turn, I get turned away. I am dismayed that law enforcement is more apt to protect the medical community instead of innocent patients who only want help with physical issues in a respectful and dignified manner. I was deceived into believing my bodily privacy would be protected. I feel absolutely violated because I was. I am demonstrating signs of PTSD. I can't sleep at night. I have stomach problems. I do all that I can to avoid seeing nurses out and about. I even changed my route to work to avoid seeing a billboard advertising a local hospital. I have a hard time showering sometimes. And I have been having male intimacy problems that are not corrected through medication. With the help of my wife, I filed multiple complaints with the Office of Sexual Misconduct (department with the Title IX Office) at the university where this happened as well as with campus police, the state board of medicine, and other organizations. I was basically told that I should have expected visual and physical intimate access simply because it occurred in a medical context and that I implied consent to be prepped like this. This is unreasonable because I could only consent to be prepped for the procedure as it was explained to me, and that was with incisions around my knee. The cop even chided me for not taking responsibility for my own health care. I did all the research I could and asked all the questions I could think of. No way I could have ever discovered that they were going to violate me like that. I did not want to be exposed to complete strangers of the opposite sex, much less touched by them. I don't care if they are "professionals" or were not motivated by sexual gratification. Medical staff should not force intimate experiences on patients unless it is to save their life in that instant. The emotional trauma I am experiencing is no different than what a rape victim deals with. The psyche does not differentiate between whether the violation occurs in a private residence by a criminal or in a medical setting by a doctor or nurse. The harm is the same. To make matters worse, my wife also had a similar experience decades ago when she was a little girl from which she also suffers PTSD. My experience triggered her. We are not doing well as individuals or as a newly married couple. Hospitals should be safe places where patients seek healing without fear of assault on their personal dignity, bodily sanctity, autonomy, and humanity. But that is not the case for many patients who discover the hard way that many hospitals do not honor their own patient bill of rights mandating that patients be treated with dignity. Stripping a patient naked without his or her knowledge or expressed consent is violating the patient’s right to bodily autonomy and humanity. Patients merely have a right to know that intimate exposure and contact will occur, especially when they are in a vulnerable state from anesthesia. Some patients do not believe mere claims of “professionalism” are an adequate reason to surrender their bodily autonomy and sanctity without being allowed to explore options to avoid such an experience. Many hospitals have created an intimidating and unwelcoming environment for modest individuals and vulnerable members of society such as sexual assault victims who are hyper protective of their bodily privacy and sanctity. Advocacy groups have not taken our stories seriously. Yet, there are countless others from across the country who are suffering from negligent and careless medical personnel who do not respect a patient's right to bodily sanctity and autonomy. I am hoping these advocacy groups can help to get laws passed protecting patients from unwanted, non-consensual intimate procedures and tasks performed on them. It is encouraging to see an increasing number of states passing laws banning non-consensual pelvic exams. But this protection needs to be extended to all patients for all elective medical procedures. If interested, you can follow my blog in which I document my journey to seek accountability at {~link~}